I am often called when a client is nearing death or has passed away. I am usually asked specific questions regarding the first steps in the administration of a trust or an estate. I set forth below some things to consider regarding End of Life issues for yourself or for a loved one.
What Medical Care Do You Want? You can sign an Advance Directive for Health Care in which you appoint an agent to make medical decisions for you in case you become unable to make or communicate such decisions yourself. You can also state what your wishes are regarding specific life-sustaining procedures, nutrition, hydration, and pain medication.
Many of my clients speak openly with their loved ones and named agents about the decisions they want made if they are in a coma or are terminally ill and unable to make decisions. Some of my clients, understandably, have a difficult time talking about what they want to have happen. It is not an easy thing to discuss, but it is vital that you discuss those wishes with the person(s) you have authorized to act on your behalf.
Do you want to be Buried? If you think talking about your medical decisions is difficult to discuss, try talking about death! Yet, the first question I usually receive is: did Mom or Dad want to be buried or cremated? In California, the person with the legal authority to make that decision is your agent under your Advance Health Care Directive.
Sometimes family members cannot agree on what a person wanted done with his or her remains. One may believe that the decedent wanted to be buried, another understood the choice to be cremation. Avoid this conflict by being open with your family about what you want and having those wishes written down in your Advance Health Care Directive. You may even wish to have a prepaid burial or cremation plan so that your loved ones do not have to worry about what to do after you’re gone.
Do You Have Religious or Spiritual Needs? Does your family know what your wishes are regarding your religious or spiritual needs during a period of illness? Do you wish to have members of your church or synagogue informed of your health and to visit you? Would you find particular readings or music helpful?
Funeral or Memorial Service? If you were to pass away, would you want a funeral or memorial service held for you? Have you thought about how you would like to be remembered? Do you have music, songs, readings, or other things that are important to be included in the service? You may be surprised how important your personal wishes for these matters become to those who survive you.
Death Certificates – Be prepared to order from the mortuary a certified copy of the death certificate for each financial institution, parcel of real property, and retirement plan that was owned by the decedent. You will likely need to use them for handling those assets after his or her death.
Other Important Details to Share – Spending a few minutes completing an information list and sharing it with your loved ones could save them time and headaches after you’re gone.
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